SmartyBeardo Wrote:Spyder! We are dealing with a fragile, sensitive and caring spirit, in danger of blue balls syndrome.

• Weeks ago, I said I have got a crush on someone. But my attraction was getting stronger, and though that I should do something about it now
• Guys said to ask her out
• Week or so later, I ask her out. I spoke well and all, but my timing was off as she was interested. She then let me know she was interested by asking for my facebook and suggested meeting up on a couple of occasions for a coffee.
• That has literally been it, this happened at the start of this week
  
  

Fitz Wrote:I wouldn't post about this stuff if I really cared.

I know the advice that was given is legit and I took it all on board, but I did consider it trolling in the end, because this has been the story:

• Weeks ago, I said I have got a crush on someone. But my attraction was getting stronger, and though that I should do something about it now
• Guys said to ask her out
• Week or so later, I ask her out. I spoke well and all, but my timing was off as she was interested. She then let me know she was interested by asking for my facebook and suggested meeting up on a couple of occasions for a coffee.
• That has literally been it, this happened at the start of this week
  
  

I have been given sound advice, but the whole time with "you're going to be the reserve" "she will be unloading feelings while he is fucking her" "how are you in a great position, you're not fucking her".

How doesn't that sound like trolling considering on what has actually happened, and all within 5 days? lol.

I don't care, just don't say there hasn't been any trolling. They have been incorporated together, advice with trolling. Seriously, from what has actually happened, to what the discussion about me is.....it seems a little over the top considering on what has happened in this very little time.

Mean Mister Mustard Wrote:...though it has been funny seeing these vultures trying to dismember your entire psyche through the use of linguistic bombs and visual pyrotechnics.

Method Wrote:

Mean Mister Mustard Wrote:...though it has been funny seeing these vultures trying to dismember your entire psyche through the use of linguistic bombs and visual pyrotechnics.

Well, with lines like, "....She made me feel good. I chewed gum after that", who could blame us.

Mean Mister Mustard Wrote:

Method Wrote:

Mean Mister Mustard Wrote:...though it has been funny seeing these vultures trying to dismember your entire psyche through the use of linguistic bombs and visual pyrotechnics.

Well, with lines like, "....She made me feel good. I chewed gum after that", who could blame us.

Nobody could blame you. It's a lion's den in here and if you can't walk then don't even think about running.

I gotta tell you though, knowing Fitz's history, I wouldn't be surprised if this is all a made up story that he's using to drive us all into insanity. He's probably working out in the gym with a huge erection knowing that he's playing everyone in here.

Fitz Wrote:Haha, I'm not lying. Yeah I am still the same here, and it wasn't like I was fucked where I couldn't cope at all. I got a long fine with people, I had friends and appeared pretty normal. Even friends didn't really notice much, except I would just disappear off the face of the earth because I hated to be around people, they drained me and it used to make me anxious and shit all the time, even though on the outside, you couldn't tell so much. I'd just rather my own company, and this phase just went on too long. Like I've mentioned before, being stoned all the time didn't help either.
I've got things together and feel great now, but this was just a little feat for me because it was something I wouldn't have done, because it meant speaking with someone and required effort and felt extremely hard at the time.
I'm just saying, I'm feeling good now and I'm just going to keep doing what I'm doing.