Effing Marriage...

[Warlord]

(05-21-2017 12:22 AM)BGv4.0 Wrote:  Nah....I don't subscribe to that Yes you're right all the time BS. To me that sets a terrible precedence for all future arguments and disagreements. And at some point most men will get tired of that BS....even if it's later in life and pack their shit and leave.

No.....my wife and I are pretty good about discussing things first...but every now and again...we get into a knock down drag out fight...and there are times I dig my heels in and all I do is get real quite....give her the look that says...im not fuckin around and I calmly say....this is what's going down....Im done.....and Ill walk the fuck out. At that point she knows I'm not jacking around....she will usually sleep on it and the next day is much more docile....even apologetic.

And don't believe that never go to bed mad BS.....sometimes I turn my back and sleep like a baby and then she stays up all night being mad losing sleep.....fuck that.

I'm sorry, I foolishly though separating those two phrases with a semi-colon would've been enough to show that though the two ideas were related by thought, they were separate.

I never tell my wife she's right when she's arguing with me. Because she isn't. No one is right when they argue with me. She is wrong 100% of the time just like everyone else.

I tell my wife she's right when she comes home from work telling me about her day, or sharing her feelings on a certain subject. That's what I mean when I say to tell a woman "you're right." Don't argue with her about her feelings. It's a no-win situation, and not much advantage if you could somehow win.

The "I'm sorry" bit I explained already. I'm not sorry that we argued or that I'm right and she's wrong. I'm sorry because she is upset. I absolutely think that is the right call to make, and do it every time. And it also works every time. It doesn't make a man weak to understand women, how they think, and what they need. Right and wrong don't matter to women. Feelings do. If you make her feel bad, you need to rectify it. It doesn't make you a loser or anything else. It makes you wise.

Going to bed angry will come back to bite you eventually. Terrible decision.