I need to vent....

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AKay Wrote:Word up, more often then not I hate being married. This shit just saps the whole life and man-ness out of you. I'm busy working dealing with bullshyt at work and constantly come home to a dirty house and nothing done in the house. Then when I get home its like I gotta be the fucking maid and super. Some days I am emotionally, mentally and/or physically drained from work and just wanna relax. But its like I get the fucking attitude that I should be a relief pitcher and take care of the kids when i get home cause she took care of them all day.

yea cause you dropped out of college and havent held down a full time job in 4-5 years, you stay home with the kids. Get a fucking job that can contribute to the household and put the kids in day care. I love my kids, and am very deep into my religion and wont get a divorce but sometimes I just wish she would cheat on me or something so I can have my out.

I've had my car repo'd, my credit go to shyt, I owe more for her student loans than mine and she hasn't even finished her bachelors but I got an MBA!
Ughhh I can go on but just need to quickly vent as I choose to sleep on the coach than deal with her bullshit tonight.

Damn, bro. I remember when you two were dating, and everything was gum drops and candy canes.

You had that site, and she was up on the forums postin. Y'all talkin dirty...or she was, and everyone was trying to hit on her friend.

HAHAHAHAHA.

If it makes you feel any better bro, I have been through it and know exactly what you're goin through. Not sure if you tell her how lucky she is, but sometimes women need to hear how good they have it, cuz they really have tendencies to over play their hands, or grossly overestimate their value/worth.

By all rights, I should be walking in to a blow job every day I come home from work. Kids in Montessori (with AFTER CARE), lady don't work, maid comes a couple times a week. Two blocks from the beach. All she has to worry about is going to Flamenco class and gym/beach/pool.

Instead, some days you walk through the door and if you didnt know any better, you'd think you were stuck w Cindarella PRE-glass slipper. Lookin like she was hucking around heavy pales of water all day. Gimme a fucking break.

You owe it to yourself to be happy man. On the other hand, w two kids and a wife w no job for past 4-5 years, divorce could/would be a motherfucker to you.