I need to vent....

[SmartyBeardo]

JONdaCON Wrote:When a girl tells me she has a BF I usually respond with a "oh, you must've miss understood me. I don't wanna be your boyfriend"... Lol.

Or a "oh, how long have you 2 been about to break up?"..

I wouldn't recommend this for everyone, as I juss have one of those personalities that doesnt offend ppl much no matter what I say....

Fitz the guys are right, patience is key... At this point I wouldn't treat her any different but would act less interested a bit.. enough for her to miss you a bit but not enough to put her off... also give her a "whenever you ready, ill be waiting" type comment... Girls digg that shyt and if she sees you sticc around that usually tells girls something.... Like you've been fuccing around and I'm still here. Girls like feeling wanted.

Sorry JdaC, gotta disagree.

Whatever you do Fitz, do not under any circumstances tell a woman you are interested in "whenever you ready, I'll be waiting." No nononononononononononononNo NOOOOOOO!

Women like feeling wanted. They like having a reserve dick in the pen. You do not want to be the dick in reserve.

You want to be the dick she is chasing like a trout after the lure.

You want to be the dick she can't resist and that won't happen if she knows she can have it whenever she wants it. It will only happen if she thinks you could take it or leave it. It will only happen if she thinks she has to compete for you.

Sure, women like feeling wanted. But it is human nature, women don't even understand it, but deep up inside they have an itch for the stud who they believe can have any bitch he wants. It is a hunger they can't control.

But, if you prefer to be the fish bait in reserve, by all means, tell her that she can call you anytime and you will be there for her.