I need to vent....

[the ollie reed fan club]

Fitz Wrote:I saw her this morning, and it was definitely a positive encounter. Walked in this morning, and she was at the front desk and the first this she said to me was "I am so sorry about Monday, I feel awful, it was just really bad timing.......bad timing on YOUR part......but we can do coffee soon?". I didn't know what to say on the spot, so I just said "yes", she then asked me if I have facebook, and told me to add her, I told her to just look my name up in the system and add me.
We then talked a little bit, and she began flirting with me because I was talking to her on how I had to come yesterday in the afternoon (we are both morning people) and was complaining about how shit it is in the afternoon, and she then started saying how much better morning is, and she said "you also get to see me as well" and then laughed.
I knew I didn't read anything wrong though, she is definitely keen.

But I didn't know how to respond to the coffee part. I just agreed to it on the spot, lol.

Also STEVENSKI, she is not a stripper, lol. She teaches kids dancing, and she does ballet, jazz and tap dancing in the 15 years she has danced.

Tough call on the coffee. If you turned her down flat out then you just look like a petulant child and of course you ant too appear too cool to do the jealousy thing.

I'm with Beardo here, let her do all the pursing of this coffee date and it is VITAL that you politely decline her the first time she asks.

She has to be of the mindset that she has lost her chance and not the other way around, although if she really did say "bad timing on YOUR part" I do like her moxie.

If and when you do get around to this coffee make sure it is you that sets the time, date, venue etc. In other words you are in charge.

And also make sure that once on said coffee 'date' because that's what it will really be, a date in sheep's clothing, that it is you that leaves first. Preferably do something like look at your watch and nonchalantly say "we've got to wrap this now."

Women love that passive/aggressive shit.

Sounds to me like you've got this all wrapped up brother.