I need to vent....

[JD]

Fitz Wrote:

Spyder Wrote:

This made me laugh. Fitz the cuckold man...lol

Haha, JD definitely belittled me.

No no...not at all.

I am just saying, the path you're on is a bad one.

She has a guy she is with, he likely takes her out, bangs her and has someone to rub his neck when he asks. She now also has a guy who is interested in her that she told "sorry, no go on dinner...how about coffee", that guy is clearly not going to be getting back rubs from her, nor screwing her; instead she will chat with him about her relationship, maybe a little bit about the weather...and definitely a lot about her feelings - FUCK THAT. Don't be that guy.

The only way to shift mindset is to let her know how irrelevant she truly is, and the easiest way to do that is to remain cordial, and create a sense of distance or at least preoccupation with something else. You won't seem interested, but at the same time you won't seem bitter - she will be intrigued and wonder why you don't give a shit anymore and either start making an effort toward you, or bail herself. Either way you will have clarity and not get caught in some sort of limbo that sees some other dude banging the chick while you feed her emotional needs.

Change course now...it's easy.