I need to vent....

[SmartyBeardo]

Fitz Wrote:

Spyder Wrote:

Fitz Wrote:I also have an edge because at least in the morning, I am the alpha male in the gym. Plus, I am a smiling assasin and for some reason, people find me very approachable. People like to come and talk to me, as I am a pretty friendly guy. So I am an alpha male there in the mornings, with a lot of people (guys and girls) like to talk to me, so I am sure that may impress her as well.

Ok, this will be enough for now.

They think you're gay. That's why you're approachable and why the front counter girl wants to have coffee with you. Hell, she probably will ask you to go shopping with her next.

But just to be clear, there is absolutely NOTHING alpha about that.

Next you'll be telling us she let you give her a foot rub...lol

I beg to differ.

It may not sound that way, but I can read the vibe, I'm not oblivious or delusional. Like I said the other week, deadlifting 165kgs. Nobody is close to me there, and my crush saw me do this, and she stopped, started counting my weights and was really impressed by it, and asked me if it was a PB. So have others.
I have milfs introducing themselves to me, and I have lost count how many times I've been told about how good I am looking, I'm ripping up, them commenting on my veins that are coming through to my shoulders and chest, and these compliments have come from my crush, another personal trainer, along with the milfs. I often get praised by others about the weight I lift with deadlifting and bench pressing. I have guys asking me about my program.

It really depends on what type of alpha people are describing, and I know the typical type cliche description of one. Guys that are serious, look intimidating, don't say much, keep to themselves, don't smile or give people much, good looking....the typical cool guy. It's usually the same temperament pitbull owners or big dog owners want for their breed. Serious, cool looking dog that people should tread around with caution. They don't want people to joke around or be too friendly with them, because to them it means that people are too comfortable around them, and they don't want that. They want people to feel cautious, lol. People feeling comfortable around them is a weakness in their mind.
That isn't me, I'm a pretty friendly person, but I've been the man there for a while now, lol.

Are you going to start trolling me like JD was? lol.

Exactly why I don't workout in a gym/health club - the fucking social scene. I only have so much time to get it done. The last thing I need is every other person coming up and expecting conversation.

Home setup is the only way for me these days.