I need to vent....

[JD]

Fitz Wrote:

JD Wrote:I was definitely not trolling you, I was offering sound advice to the quandary you allowed yourself to end up in.

If you deem it to be trolling it means that either my delivery was off, or you are so far off kilter on this particular issue that reasonable, rational and logical advice sounds like trolling to you.

Haha, no you did give sound advice at times. But some posts, I'm sure you were at least semi-trolling. Even the other married guy Spyder said you would respond with a 'passive-aggresive' post, lol.

I have literally done NOTHING at this point where I have put myself in a bad situation. I am still in EXACTLY the same situation I was in when people were saying I was in a good position. Literally, nothing has changed. I'm still in that great position, but being made out that I have fucked myself, which I still don't know how, because the position I am in when it is apparently 'good', is still the exact same position I was in before. Which is why it seems like trolling, lol.

Nope, not trolling in the least.

Perhaps stating that you allowed yourself to end up in this quandary is a tad strong, though by agreeing to go to coffee (regardless whether you do or do not) has put you in a bit of one.

A good position would be if you were the guy she was hanging with, sleeping with and partying with...while some other guy was meeting her for coffee and offering her emotional support. See how that works?