I need to vent....

[the ollie reed fan club]

Fitz Wrote:Yeah I agreed to it, I didn't know what to say on the spot. It wasn't like she said "do you want to go coffee on (insert day) or next week or anything?"

She just said "we should go have coffee sometime if your interested?, and I just said "yeah", but that was it. She said it on Monday when I asked her out, and then on Wednesday, so she mentioned it twice. Though it isn't like we have made an arrangement or something. She then asked me if I had facebook and told me to add her, and I told her to look me up in the system and she said she would. I had it set so I can't be searched for, and I didn't even mention it this morning about the facebook issue. It's not that bad, if she does try request a time, I can always say I'm busy.

I like how we have now established out of nowhere that this girl needs your emotional support She sounds pretty together to me and obviously has a bit of a crush on you but is currently with someone else.

No need to do anything except stay cool.

You do strike me as a nice guy Fitz so trying to play the asshole with her probably isn't going to suit you. You will end up just coming off like someone you aren't.

The only thing I would say is if she brings up coffee again just say "nah but if you ever want to go for a real drink let me know." Keep it simple. In my experience if she ever agrees to go for an alcoholic drink with you you are in.

Whenever a woman who is married, engaged or with someone else agrees to go drinking with you it means she wants to do something but also needs a convenient excuse to justify it in her own mind "I was drunk so that's OK."

The day she agrees to that 'proper' drink it's all over. Until then just stick to retards