I need to vent....

[KYLE THEEE SPINKS FAN]

I've been engaged for almost four years. You all are right, committing to marriage takes a lot of sacrifice and committement.

I also think it really depends where you are and what you're doing in life that impacts if you're ready for marriage. For example, I work a job putting in 50 hours a week and I'm studying for the CPA exam. I don't have time, nor want to find time, to talk to women. I'm good with what I have, and she's my best friend. Communication is key to anything. I don't play that mind-reading shit either, as I think if you're with somebody, you should be able to tell them anything. If ya got a damn problem, man up and say the shit. No use keeping it in, then having it come up again 5 months/years later. That happened to my sister, as her husband didn't say shit, then ended up filing for divorce.

On a side note of venting, this week sucks and I can't wait for it to be over. Ever have one of those weeks at work where just about everything you do isn't right? My week so far, go me.