I need to vent....

[blackbelt2003]

SmartyBeardo Wrote:

Warlord Wrote:

gravytrain Wrote:my girl is at the marriage phase of her life now, i'm 23 so it's a little harder on me. but like my brother inlaw told me "you like havin fun? don't get married, man. fuck that".

Your brother-in-law speaks truly. I don't know of any married dude who, if they're honest, would recommend marriage to a friend. I love my wife to death and everything, but man, overall marriage as an institution is just so contrary to our DNA.

People can get all high and mighty, and I'm sure some dick here will, but men aren't made to be handcuffed. In the end, as much as some dickheads may not want to believe, we ARE animals. It was written into our DNA to pass our seed on to as many women as possible. I'm not speaking morally here, only instinctually.

Try as we might, every moment we spend in a faithful marriage is another moment running contrary to our basic construction.

Now, physical shit aside, don't even get me started on the little pick-a-ninny bullshit that comes along with marriage. The part where your girl is upset, but doesn't tell you why, because if you really love her you should just automatically know. Shit like that.

Now I know some king-shit dickhead will come in here posting about how he's got his girl all in-check and shit, and doesn't have to deal with any of that. And you know what? I just laugh at dudes like that, thinking their fooling someone. Anyone. Because they ain't.

Life is not that black and white.

While I would not recommend marriage to the vast majority of men under 35, there are those men that are made for marriage. They function better under the parameters of marriage. They are ready, willing and able to make the massive compromises necessary for marriage.

The overwhelming majority of men who think that they are ready for marriage have no clue. It is similar to the majority who join the USMC thinking they know what they are getting into and almost immediately realize that they were fools.

This does bring up one of my pet peeves . . . the idea that we are born a certain way and we have no control over who we are or what we become. The idea that our appetites are predetermined.

Yes, Ollie, I'm going there . . . I am sick and tired of the homosexual community hiding behind their DNA. I am not suggesting that there are not a considerable amount of people who were born with a dick who are attracted to others with dicks. I just believe that much of our sexual appetite is developed by experience, environment and habit.

While there are those born homosexual, there are a considerable number of people who develop that appetite. I have lived through the whole modern cultural development of the movement. I know too many individuals who have gone back and forth from heterosexual to homosexual to bi-sexual. I really don't give a shit what anyone does sexually as long as it does not involve injuring another individual without permission.

It does piss me off that the homosexual community hangs its hat on the DNA/"I was born this way" cop out. Take responsibility for who you are and the decisions you make. If a dude wants to get fucked in the ass, fine. I don't give a shit. Just cease with the "I only want to get fucked in the ass because I was born this way." That is pathetic. They might as well be saying "yes, I am a sick bastard but I was born a sick bastard."

I was born wanting to fuck every female that doesn't look like a Sherman Tank. I demand my right to fuck every chick I see because I was born this way.

What a load of crap. Homosexuals need to grow up, take responsibility for their lifestyle choices, and claim their rights because they are rights, not because of some faux innocence.

Awesome, Mr Bearded one. I just said something a little similar in the Manny Pac thread.





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