I need to vent....

[Fitz]

Spyder Wrote:Think about how often a mentally challenged bitch gets to get it on with a normal dude...

You see? You'd be doing her a favor by using her mouth as a tube sock. Have some damn sympathy for Christ's sake...what an inconsiderate bastard you are for not banging the shit out of that poor disabled girl.

This has actually gone through my head numerous times, more the mentally challenged getting with a normal dude part, lol. She told me she hadn't slept with someone in 5 years (16-17 years at the time then, her golden years, lol). So I thought that this would be a pretty rare occasion for her, and thought that she did pretty well for herself under the circumstances, she was definitely batting well above her average.

STEVENSKI Wrote:That is a fucked up experience to go through Fitz . I bet you had a sinking feeling the first time you saw her in the flesh & it just got more obvious as the minutes dragged on.

What Method said man. You have to tell her to lose your number.

BTW Meth is on fire today

It did, as soon as she jumped in she was looking deep into my eyes and touching my face and had a creepy smile. Just saying "you're so cute". I even remember talking to her on the phone, and she said people used to say she looks like Eva Mendez. She brought it up in the car, and I was like what the fuck....."yeeeeeah, you have similar eyes". Real awkward, I was desperate not to be seen with her in public.

One part I left out, was when we were sitting at the table, in the cafe. She put her hand out in the middle of the table and was looking into my eyes, I made sure I would not look down at her hand, but I could see it from the corner of my eye. She then moved her hand further out, and was now into my half of the table. I didn't look down, and just smiled at her. Put my hand in my pocket, got my phone out to look at the time, then picked up the menu again, even though it was not necessary. I was just trying to buy time, until she moved her hand away. That minute felt like an eternity.
On the way back to the car, as I power walk a meter in front, she runs up behind me and starts hugging me from behind, my wrapping her hands around my waist. I just nervously laugh off this, and pull her away from me, haha. Then when we jump back in the car, she says something like; "I like that you don't hold my hand in public, I don't like to do it either on first dates." I just told her that I don't like public affection, even though it's not entirely true. Though within reason.

Lil-Lightsout Wrote:Damn FITZ... that was an interesting story. I have a short attention span and have trouble reading stuff that is too long, I always end up skipping over so much or just moving on to a different subject. BUT, I read every word of your thesis, brought me back to Ben's replies at FH. Hahaha. Anyway me and you seriously are so alike it's not funny, I was picturing myself if I was in your shoes and felt sorry for you, cause I would have done the same stuff. Funny story.

Haha. I woke up 7:30 on this Saturday morning, went to the gym, got home, showered, had breakfast. Then had a scoob and a scotch, and I was feeling pumped and relaxed on the weekend, lol. It was about 11:30am, and I was feeling good. I wanted to write it in detail, I was in the zone.

KYLE THEEE SPINKS FAN Wrote:Fitz, that was an interesting story. Don't string her along dude, you'll only make things worse. She'll get even more obsessed/stalkerish if you don't just end it now. She may actually feel you want to be with her in a serious relationship, and you'll just have a big mess.

I'm not one to talk right now though...I'm on my way to breaking a record for longest engagement ever lol. We've been engaged 3.5 years, and we're both too busy/lazy/focused on career type stuff to plan a wedding. I'm sure it'll get done sometime, but it gets annoying when every friggin person has to ask when the wedding is.

Yeah, I get annoying messages all the time. Last night she called, and I said I wasn't looking for anything, and told her this was moving too fast. She tries to play it cool, but literally a minute of getting off the phone, she calls back and is like: Do you care if I speak with other guys? I tell her "no", then she asks me "what if I meet other guys, what if I kiss other guys and what if I sleep with other guys". I tell her, no, no and no. I had known you under a week and you don't have any commitment to me, do what you like.
She asked me to meet her last night, but I lied and made up plans that booked me for all weekend. So she said cya, and enjoy my night.
After telling me to enjoy my night, she then messages me 10 minutes later saying sorry about busting my balls, and other general shit and ends the message with "hihi hav fun 2nyt babe x" then she sends another message like an hour later with cute emotion pic love hearts, to which I don't reply to, again. Then she send me another message 2 hours later, after I didn't reply to her previous, with a "Hi u lesbian hope ur havin fun xxx".
Put it this way. In under a week, I have already received over 100 texts from her.

For you, I wouldn't stress. Have been engaged for a while, but you guys have committed. It's not the right time for either of you to get married at this stage. You're better off doing it when you don't have as much going on.